Feminism

I want to be a feminist, I do, but women need to get their shit together or I'm going to have to turn sexist. It's nothing genetic, it's a cultural thing. There are some physiological differences between men and women, women tend to be smaller for example and this can actually influence behavior. But the physical and hormonal differences between men and women are not nearly enough to cause the kind of dimorphism we see in our society. In this report I wrote, I speak of stereotypes, archetypes, it's important to remember this.

Feminism

Women are more behavioral, men are more conscious. I’m not being sexist, it’s our society, but of course I am speaking in broad generalizations based on stereotypes.
Women have much more pressure on them to act and look a certain way all the time and under any circumstance. So women pre-memorize all their responses based on what they’re supposed to be. They get used to this and use this strategy for everything. They just act the way a woman is supposed to. This behavior is encouraged when your girls are taught to play house and play with dolls, which furthers along this strong feminine roll. Women subjugate themselves.
Young boys on the other hand are taught to play sports and with toy swords and other physical games that promote strength, aggression, and both teamwork and independence. Boys don’t cry, boys are strong, boys are independent and must look after girls. Men focus on strategy and self sufficiency, that is, solving your own problems instead of rejecting it or turning to others for help.
From what I can tell, these are not gender or hormone related things, they are completely learned behaviors and if you told a young girl to go out and play swords with the boys instead of telling her to brush her hair one hundred times so she’ll be pretty, she might grow up to be stronger and independent too.
I’ve actually done a study on male and female behavior that goes along with this. This my theory based on typical male and female behaviors that I’ve summed up.
Women ignore rational thought. To them, logic is only used for solving problems and most of their problems have pre-memorized solutions. Everything has a certain way it “should” be for every situation, and that includes how a guy should act.
Girls memorize the components of something without understanding the whole just to get by. Logical mechanics do not exist to girls. There are no reasons, there is no guide, just be and trust your feelings. Sensuality is everything, body language, body heat, distance, tone, texture of motion… Touch is very important. How you speak is more important than what you say. It’s not how you flow, its just flow, flow flow… Girls talk with their lips, not the jaw, not the tongue, lips move. Girls expel their words. Their tone of voice rides on their emotion.
Anything that girls don’t understand instinctively is rejected. Rationality is not the basis of their thinking, logic and thinking is just for math and stuff. Some things are just the way they are and there is no reason to question it. There are no answers because there are no questions. Girls don’t need reasons.
Self is the center of attention, not the given topic or the other person. Girls are selfish, self centered and self conscious. Everything you do (including body language) or say reflects on the self. What you communicate is how people judge you. How you act is the barrier between yourself and the other person. Makeup is a mask, helps a girl feel confident. Girls are judged based on their body language which also refers to their looks. Prettiness means worth. Action is also important, rapport, who moves, for who, hesitation, never hesitate.
Because there is no logical process, girls try to do everything at once. They multitask and always have so much on their mind. They think about everything going on in their life all at once all the time. They try to stay aware of everything at the same time so they do not have any strong conscious thoughts, their consciousness is divided. Girls are very prone to stress because of this. The only way to deal with this stress is to separate yourself from the world and relax somewhere that’s like a retreat, where problems don’t matter, symbolically.
Women communicate through the barrier, only to the inner self of other women. They are very tentative so as not to hurt the feelings of the other rather than just being logical and straightforward. They play word games with hidden meanings in tones.
Men on the other hand are very straightforward and logical. All their thoughts are logical, the very concept of a non-logical thought is nonsense. They list out their problems or things to do and then do them in the best order. If one problem cannot be solved until a certain time, a guy will forget it until that time comes. Then, all the problems are either solved or being solved, giving guys a lot of spare time and a free mind. A guy lists out his problems and solves them one at a time with the whole of his mind at once, this solves them faster, usually. Men then have a lot of free time and focus more on intellectual pursuits or hobbies. When a man talks to someone, it is because they are interested in what the other person has to say, otherwise the conversation would not take place. When a man does something it is for a purpose that has a purpose, not because it’s just the way to do things. By understanding the whole of a theory or process, you don’t have to memorize every component and can solve or extrapolate these components whenever you need them, this means less memorization and therefore less work. Men think of one thing at a time and don’t have all the background static women have.
If a man is dating a woman and the woman tells them “I don’t like flowers”, she says that because she doesn’t want to seem expectant or demanding, even if she actually is. The man will remember that point and will make sure to never, ever give her flowers. For a woman to lie to man like this is something a man will take as an insult, that she would not be honest with him or to think that she could manipulate him.
What’s funny is that from a male perspective, a woman is empty headed and doesn’t actually think. But from a female perspective, a man’s head is empty and a man doesn’t actually think. In my own opinion the male way is superior because it doesn’t generate as much stress. But despite how it seems, both are equally capable of succeeding in this world at almost every task. Of course, certain tasks are better left to one way of thinking or the other, a woman is more practiced at thinking of many things at once, for example, and would have more aptitude towards such a task.
On a side note related to this, I estimated that something like twenty percent of men date and have sex with eighty percent of women. I was later told by someone who read a book and found an actual statistic that it’s more like sixteen percent of men and eighty something percent of women, a more intense combination than I had thought. This sixteen percent of men are very sexually aggressive and spend all their time trying to have sex with as many women as possible. They are rude, sexist and don’t actually care about women. But they’re loud enough to seem like the official voice for men. Most women only listen to these men and think all men are like them. This activity perpetuates a negative female stereotype in two ways. First, those sixteen percent of men think that women are naive and easily taken advantage of; they’re stupid. The rest of men see this happening, they watch as women get taken advantage of and then complain about how they can never meet a nice guy, often while complaining to a nice guy. They think all guys are sexist jerks and dream of meeting a sexist jerk and falling in love with them. Nice guys respect women too much to rudely hit on some girl they don’t even know and would usually rather be friends with a woman they actually like rather than to date her for a week and never see her again. Some nice guys do act like jerks but that’s usually because they can’t see any other method of getting a girlfriend. Ladies, if a man hits on you in a bar, don’t expect anything to come of it unless you really want to date the kind of guy who hits on random girls in bars.
So the best way for a guy to meet a nice girl is to either act like a total jerk or like a girl, you have to learn the correct body language and act it out in just such a way.
The best way for a woman to meet a nice guy is to either act like a slut or a guy. If you like a guy, say so and deal with it together, you don’t need to hesitate or beat around the bush, in fact that will only confuse him.
In our society, women, the archetypical woman, is raised by her parents like a "pretty littel doll" and then moves from father to husband still being this perfect little "thing". While we have made great strides with feminism, this cultural archetype still lives on in many women. They want to have everything given to them and expect their looks and style to provide it for them. They want to just lay on their backs and have a man just give them an orgasm. I'm sorry for the crass metaphor, but that's how they are, with everything. It's no wonder some men beat their wives.